It’s that time of year again where we celebrate what we believe in, spend time with our chosen family and are gay together- one of the many meanings of the word „gay“ is „merry“.

My wish for you personally is: be grateful for who you are, who you are with and what you have together. Spread love and peace around you. 

My thoughts this year are that we have too much hate, division and war in the world. I am talking about all the tiny, daily things people do AND the big fights. 

This year my inspiration comes from Esther Perel and I highly recommend her talk with Steven Bartlett, her game and her conflict course if this sounds familiar to you:

„Uncover why you keep having the same fights over and over again. Learn how to break free from habitual patterns and responses. Find peace and reconciliation even when you disagree.

Turn conflict into connection

Instead of fighting about something, ask yourself: what are we fighting for? How can we manage paradoxes like stability & change, continuity & innovation? Play with those contradictions and find solutions. Playing is important.

Enjoy the season.